If you could recreate yourself into the person you want to be ...

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What would you be like?

I don't mean do you aspire to be like Kim Kardashian or Mary Beard. I'm talking about personality, character, strengths, beliefs.

And if you are already the person you want to be, what is that and how did you achieve it.

Bit deep for a Monday morning but I hope you'll indulge me as I'm seriously fed up of myself at the moment

I would like to be more confident, decisive, assertive and less emotional. I burst into tears at the first sign of any conflict. Also, generally a more chatty person who is at ease in social situations and never at a loss for words.
Not much really😂

Thanks for replies. Was called into work so I'll read and join in discussion in a bit!

I wish I had grabbed any and all opportunities for mental health help in my late teens and early twenties, before they became so ingrained and stopped me from taking advantage of other life opportunities that came my way.

I wish I had never stopped exercising and would have stayed physically fit and healthier.

I'd also fix our infertility and have that family I dreamt of, and remove the crippling anxiety of actually using the talents I already have to my advantage.

I wouldn't have Bipolar Disorder or all the hang ups courtesy of my bad childhood.