to say he is being pathetic

[Oakmaiden]

Yeah, I probably am. Probably shouldn't post here, but... I dunno...

My husband doesn't like cheese. He is not allergic to it - he just doesn't like it. I was serving up dinner and served up going around the table. My son asked me to put cheese on his, which I did. then I served up my husband's dinner. He said "You put cheese on mine" I said I hadn't. "There was a bit of cheese on your finger and it fell on my dinner." This is possible - but it would have been the tiniest grated bit into a chicken fajita. Impossible to taste. However, he then refused to eat it. So I served him another one, and left the table and went upstairs.

I was just really cross and fed up of pandering. He came after to ask me "What is your [my] problem?" and I told him he was being pathetic and I didn't want to sit at the table with him.

I am probably being pathetic too, and it is probably not worth the agro I have caused by not just accepting, but he really pissed me off. Again.

I have a very fussy eater husband too and he would do this and I would be furious. What an example to set a child. I'd have told him to shut up and eat it!

He is being pathetic. A tiny bit of cheese, he won’t of taste it.

Next time tell him to make himself something if yours isn't good enough.

my 6 yo also hates cheese. this is how he would react. says it all really.

He's lucky it didn't end up on his head

To be fair neither of you are coming off very well here.

Yes, he was massively childish to demand a whole new plate. There’s no way I’d have got him one, he can dish himself up a plate if it’s that important to him.

You were being unreasonable to go and sit upstairs presumably leaving your DC say at the table feeling awkward and upset?

He is being pathetic. My nearly 3 year old would react like this, but I’d tell her she was being ridiculous and she’d get over it and eat it.

I know you are right, Hyena, but to be honest I just saw red and really didn't want to sit there acting like him being a fussy child was Ok.

He's being absolutely pathetic. He's a father now and needs to set an example!
I hate spiders but since my kids came along I do my very best to get rid of them bravely so that they don't get issues. Same thing but even more important around food.

He's being ridiculous

You both sound like children. I'm not sure you came off any better here. I don't like certain things and there is no way I will eat anything with even a tiny bit in, however I don't make a fuss and would just pick it out. I hate it when people think adults should just eat anything because they are adults, actually they are entitled to likes and dislikes just like anyone else.

He was being completely unreasonable. Not surprised you lost your temper.

There's so Way I'd have served him another one.

Why are you serving him in the first place?

You both sound like drama llamas.

He sounds a bit OCD to be honest