20 weeks pregnant and feeling awful. My expanding uterus is causing me severe pain, I can't catch my breath regardless of being fit and healthy, I'm knackered, my gallbladder is playing up (though nothing new there), I've got headaches and am extremely sleep deprived. I don't moan about this as I already know my DP would just say 'you'll be fine' or 'oh dead' (sympathy definitely isn't a thing for him!).
His DD is here, we made him a fry up together, bought him a beautiful personalised frame with a photo of them both in it, and wrote a card with a poem in. We were all meant to be going for a long walk but I'm just not feeling up to it.
He's playing the guilt card saying it's Father's Day and I should come out as it'll make me feel better (it won't, and I don't want to risk being stuck in the middle of nowhere in pain and wanting to sit down). After an hour of telling me I should come out, I lost my rag and said 'is me carrying your child, sorting everything out for your daughter and being a good step mother to her not enough for you?' - now I know this was probably a stupid thing to say but I'm fed up. Me being comfortable and not in pain is much higher in my priorities than going for a walk when he could go without me and enjoy the time with his daughter.
WIBU to snap at him like that? It's out of character for me but I'm in pain and want to relax. Father's Day is a lovely day but breakfast and a gift was always as far as I was going to go...
Having a rubbish day. Hmmph 