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AIBU?

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To say he'll have to go through a contact centre?

36 replies

woooden · 16/06/2018 12:31

Ex made my pregnancy absolutely hell. I thought he'd at least be a good dad but he cancels half an hour before he's due to see her. Refuses to buy anything for her, just takes pictures of her when he does come round to put on social media. He's also incredibly disrespectful of me. I kept a record of how often and when he saw her and when he was late, she's now 7 weeks old and he's been hours late or cancelled every. Single. Time. Hes saying I'm being cruel saying he'll have to now go through a contact centre but I can't deal with it anymore. It's so unfair to our daughter and when she's older she'll notice. I also can't deal with his blatant disrespect of me (calls me the C word plus countless other derogatory names)

So AIBU?

OP posts:
itsbritneybiatch · 16/06/2018 15:43

Get him this for tomorrow

To say he'll have to go through a contact centre?
itsbritneybiatch · 16/06/2018 15:43

@lifebegins

Well you are a bundle of supportive joy aren't you??

LifeBeginsAtGin · 16/06/2018 15:49

Sadly I'm serious. Thread after thread on here. Hmm

tillytown · 16/06/2018 16:49

LifeBeginsAtGin Yup, thread after thread there's some idiotic twat insulting the OP and trying to derail the thread, and today that twat is you, congrats!

19lottie82 · 16/06/2018 17:09

Put in a claim with CMS.

And as someone else advised, if he’s more than 30 mins late, just go out, or don’t answer the door.

MamaMiapartytime · 16/06/2018 17:20

Who will pay for the contact centre?

GrannyGrissle · 16/06/2018 17:43

Haha OP at the comeback to that cunty comment. Yes to contact centre. This dollop of turd with whom you CHOSE to procreate Grin (i purposely sought out an utter turd to breed with Grin - We don't all posess a crystal ball do we?) will not enhance your or DD's lives one jot. Congrats on the birth and it gets easier lone parenting! Flowers

GrannyGrissle · 16/06/2018 17:47

'Today that twat is you' Mumsnet gold. Really please don't lose any sleep over 'making it more difficult' for the poor lamb to see DD OP. Lifebegins have you considered a job assessing PIP applicants? You really would fit right in.

bastardkitty · 16/06/2018 18:37

@itsbritneybiatch love the mug! Do you think they will have sold out?

itsbritneybiatch · 16/06/2018 21:38

Probably not but if they have you could just make your own on vista print.

Absolutely not saying I've ever done this because they are half the price.

bastardkitty · 16/06/2018 23:19
Grin
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