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Is this harrasement

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cuddly61 · 16/06/2018 00:32

Ok long running saga but my neighbours are making my life hell and my mental health is suffering.
Police aren’t interested .
Two weeks ago I saw him ripping up my new grass that is next to the front boundary and throwing it on my drive.
This week they away on holiday ,today I had four fence posts replaced workman instructed by me not to step foot on their land .
Not long after I saw these neighbours parents arrive the daughter of my neighbours in tow.
Not long before they knocking on my door complaining there are gaps under my fence their dogs could get under .but there was no gaps.
Quite amazing because their own back fence has two huge gaps in it.
Then this daughter complained I had put another cctv camera up I explained their garden is masked off on the hardrive.
They was really hostile she said her mum wants these holes filling in before she comes back.
So the fence chap come back he couldn’t see no holes either but then the daughters boyfriend came out and started accusing the fence chap of going on next doors garden.he was hostile to.
Thing is my neighbour wrecked my fence when I first had it put up then again after I had it put right,it’s already been to court he lied and got off.
So it’s not only these neighbours but their parents and the boyfriend starting now.
So far they have blocked my car in several times on purpose.got their neighbour to join in even to the point of coming round to threaten me about my car being parked outside my own house.when I didn’t move it this other neighbour parked his van on my drive.
Then my neighbours made a malicious false allegation to the police I had shouted abuse at them .
The list goes on and I’ve had enough I can’t even afford to move.
Plus it’s a semi so I have to put up with their noise ie loud music ,dogs barking .
But it’s making me ill all this stress .so who would I need to talk to.
They own their house so do I. But could the council do something?

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bluebell34567 · 16/06/2018 01:02

sorry for your situation.
I think the best way is to log everything and go to council.

cuddly61 · 16/06/2018 09:24

Thanks been logging incidents and recording their noise .
Having new cctv put up at the moment no doubt they going to be complaining about that yet again.

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bluebell34567 · 16/06/2018 09:57

can you get a letter from your gp explaining how they are making your life hell, giving you mental health problems, make you very stressed and give it together with your evidence to council?

bluebell34567 · 16/06/2018 10:00

or from another health professional you are seeing.

LifeBeginsAtGin · 16/06/2018 10:31

Can you save up an move in a few years?

ElderflowerWaterIsDelish · 16/06/2018 10:34

If the police won't help you can you go to a solicitor or even citizens advice bureau and see if there is anything either of them can do...

Keep diaries of everything, dates, what happen, who said and did what, where it happened, who was there etc...as it will back up your story...

cuddly61 · 19/06/2018 09:43

Trouble is one of them works for my doctors .and I have put complaints in before to my doctors about her all I get is basically things have to be proved.
As I type I can hear the daughter playing loud music.
Got woken up yet again at just gone 6 am by their dogs barking.
But the way that daughter spoke to me she’s about 17 no respect at all .
It’s a case of they can do what they like but if I do anything that’s wrong.

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ElderflowerWaterIsDelish · 19/06/2018 10:03

If she hasn't done anything wrong in relation to her job e.g broke patient dr confidentiality by telling others what is in your patient file, or been abusive to you at the drs surgery or deliberately obstructed you having appointments etc then there's nothing the drs surgery can do because they cant punish her for a dispute with her neighbour

ElderflowerWaterIsDelish · 19/06/2018 10:11

Have you tried wearing earplugs or even noise cancelling headphones to sleep..it would block out the noise and make it easier to sleep...

Were you ever on good terms with these neighbours?...if you were then I'm thinking the way forward might be to.bite your tongue, and rekindle a neighbourly friendship and then when things are friendlier between you all again then in a calm manner you will both be able to discuss any issues...

At the moment both sides are defensive as you both will thing the other is wrong and both sides will be unlikely to back down....

cuddly61 · 17/09/2018 21:47

I agreed to mediation but they refused twice.

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