I just found out at 630 this evening that my aunt who has lived beside me my whole life has terminal cancer. Now granted we don't know how long we have left with her yet but should know tomorrow. I rang hubbie on his way home from work to tell him the news. Got upset on the phone and cried when I hung up. When he got home I had composed myself and was being more practical about it all. Then about an hour ago we were discussing it again and he told me not to get too involved with it all. He said her 2 nephews one of which is my brother are going to inherit all she has so they should be doing more. I was so mad and upset I couldn't get the words out so just cried. For one that he thinks I want to help her for inheritance and secondly that he doesn't understand I've known her all my life and care about her deeply.
He then siad he thought that I was over it and had dealt with it because I was talking so practically about it when he got home. I have only had this information for 5hrs now and I'm shocked that he could think "I'm over it". Just wondering am I being unreasonable being so upset by his comments. I've wondered before about him actually caring about other people but this is a new low.