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For being annoyed with dh for being so immature??????????

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looneytune · 22/05/2007 13:25

I'm so mad with dh but he's making me think I'm wrong to be SOOOOOOOOOOOO AIBU????

Dh's car is off the road this week so been taking his motorbike in. Rather than parking his car where I have mine and then me just parking behind, he's parked it right down the drive so that I can still fit on the drive but ONLY JUST - reason for this is that boys in cars with loud music etc ALWAYS use our drive to turn round and it's a bugbear of his so he always normally parks his car right at the bottom of the drive so they can't.

Well, I'm a childminder with 3/4 under 5 year olds at a time each day so I DO NOT want my car at the end of the drive, nearer the road - I want it right outside the gate to our front garden as usual!!!

Spoke to him yesterday saying I didn't want to park that near the road so I was using neighbours drive (they are away have have given permission) but last night he wanted my car back on the end and said he'd move it this morning. He did move it WHEN I REMINDED HIM but put it at the bottom of the neighbours drive. I called him at lunch and said WTF is all that about - it's still near the end of the f'ing road!!! so I moved it up this morning. I told him that I thought it was unfair that he's making my job that much harder just because he doesn't want the boys using our drive (they ARE annoying but bloody ignore it eh!!!) I said I don't mind him doing it with his own car as it's up to him but this is making things much harder and it's not fair. He went off on one!!

Am I being unreasonable to expect dh to think about his wife and the children she looks after more than he thinks about stopping the boys and their annoying cars????

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RosaLuxembourg · 22/05/2007 13:40

You are not being unreasonable. He is being a twunt. Leave him at once.

looneytune · 22/05/2007 13:50

Glad you don't think I'm being unreasonable And he's 46 next month FGS, needs to grow up imo!!!

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heifer · 22/05/2007 13:57

how about getting gates so you can close them (after you have finished for the day)...

He does sound a prat - or maybe just jealous that he isn't a young boy with load music anymore...

looneytune · 22/05/2007 14:04

I have thought about gates but not sure if there's anywhere to put posts to attach them as we have a joint drive with our neighbour. Will look into it but tbh, my point is about DH's behaviour and total lack of consideration!!

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themoon66 · 22/05/2007 14:09

Men just seem to lose sight of reasonable behaviour when they get a bee in their bonnets about this sort of nonsense.

You are not being unreasonable. He is being a twunt as someone said earlir.

looneytune · 22/05/2007 15:02

So it's a case of him being a MAN that's making him unreasonable then - that figures! Thought it was just my dh who was an annoying

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looneytune · 22/05/2007 15:37

going to print this off and shove in dh's face tonight so if you agree with me, please let me know so I can show him how silly he is!!

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