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ThisCollie · 12/06/2018 10:24

Dsis is 7 weeks pregnant with her first child and she is 43. We met with Dm recently and both of them are convinced she is having twins or triplets - dsis is sure she is having triplets. She hasn't had fertility treatment.
I said this is unlikely for most couples but especially for her due to her age and that she conceived without help and they were disappointed that I'm not "on-board" with their prediction. Dsis said that older women are in fact more likely to have triplets even without fertility treatment as more eggs get released each month. I said "Wow, I didn't know that! Can't wait for the scan."
Is this true? What are the chances of her having triplets? I hope her hunch is right, but it just seems a bit on the far-fetched side and I really don't want her to be disappointed if the scan reveals "just" the one baby...

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Smellyjo · 12/06/2018 10:28

It is true that older women are more likely to have multiples due to erratic egg release, but I don't know how likely it is - I'd agree a single baby is more likely. However people do get accurate senses they are having multiples, you never know. It's probably more likely wishful thinking to get a ready made whole family at 43.

HollowTalk · 12/06/2018 10:30

I think I'd want to be younger than 43 if I had triplets!

Just indulge her for now - it sounds as though she's reading books and taking just what she wants from them, but there's no harm done. A "Ohhh that would be nice!" will do.

Caribou58 · 12/06/2018 10:33

What evidence does she have for this? I'm thinking that at 7 weeks there won't be any...

Phosphorus · 12/06/2018 10:37

It's true that older women are more likely to have multiples.

I guess it's nature's last hurrah.

Just indulge her, let her have fun, where's the harm?

phlewf · 12/06/2018 10:41

I dreamed I was having triplets throughout. Really clear dreams, 2 boys who were identical twins and healthy, and a girl who was smaller and struggling. Wouldn’t have surprised me a bit to find out I was having triplets but it wasn’t the case.

ThisCollie · 12/06/2018 10:43

No evidence - just a feeling. I didn't mention likelihood again as I didn't want to be unsupportive to my pregnant sister, and said how exciting it all was. And it is! I can't wait to be an aunt, whether it's to one or eight children.

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HollowTalk · 12/06/2018 10:56

The thing is that if this is her first and much-wanted baby, you're going to get a lot of this for the next nine months, and then there'll be the discovery that her child is actually a genius! I'd just let her get on with it and enjoy her excitement. I hope all goes well for her.

LeighaJ · 12/06/2018 11:16

news.bbc.co.uk/1/hi/health/4735446.stm

I've heard of twins being more common but not triplets.

There are a lot of fraternal twins in my family and I was 37 when I got pregnant, I sighed with relief when I found out I was pregnant with only one baby.

I don't understand why people are so obsessed with the idea of a multiple birth, I guess they just want to be "special".

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