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Crowdfunding for a sporting event - cheeky

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GreenFlamingo11 · 11/06/2018 16:22

Name change for this.

An acquaintance of mine is taking part in a major sporting event this year. I'm not saying which one because it's outing. Travel fees and accommodation to the event is paid by organisers but participants have to fund their own equipment. AIBU in thinking it's cheeky to ask for crowdfunding for something like this? They are looking for roughly £1,500.
I feel that if you want to participate in these things you should be able to afford them before you sign up, not be asking people for money after the fact. They are employed in a good job so it's not like they're on the poverty line, and with all other event costs being paid, surely you could rustle up £1000 yourself between savings, etc, or have started a savings account beforehand with this in mind.
IMO, crowdfunding should be used by people who actually need the money - for a major operation or something else that would vastly improve the quality of your life.
I'm not bashing sporting events, or those that participate, I know huge training and sacrifice is involved but it's very much a want not a need to participate.

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araiwa · 11/06/2018 16:27

Dont donate then

FittonTower · 11/06/2018 16:28

People use crowd funding for all sorts. I have a friend who is a filmmaker and she uses it, prettt successfully at times to fund her projects. It's not improving her quality of life exactly (although it does pay the salary of people that work on/are contracted to the films or whatever) but if people want to support the crowdfunder they can, if they don't then they don't have to.
I'd rather it was used for things like sport and the arts really and things like healthcare should be free at the point of need .

Trinity66 · 11/06/2018 16:30

It's up to people to donate I guess? I wouldn't personally for something like that though

ReservoirDogs · 11/06/2018 16:30

When the Team GB Women's Bobsleigh team had their funding withdrawn the GB public got them there by crowdfunding.

Either be more specific about the event or donate or don't donate as you wish.

ThroughThickAndThin01 · 11/06/2018 16:31

I’m always amazed by the things people are trying to get other people to buy them. This is one of the better ones imo!

I’d never donate through this system, but if people are happy to then more fool them, more than the person who ends up with the dosh.

catinasplashofsunshine · 11/06/2018 16:31

Crowdfunding is an odd thing. I suppose you don't ask, you don't get, but they'd be very, very unreasonable if they tried to put any sort of pressure (including 1:1 requests which have to be uncomfortably refused or reluctantly given in to) on friends or family to donate.

Asking other people to pay for your hobby or holiday is cheeky, but more fool anyone who gives them money I suppose.

JacquesHammer · 11/06/2018 16:32

I have no problem with it.

The choice is yours whether to donate or not, it isn't compulsory.

m0therofdragons · 11/06/2018 16:34

Surely the sports world is largely funded by sponsorship and grants so it's not massively different imo.

catinasplashofsunshine · 11/06/2018 16:41

Sponsorship is a mutually beneficial business arrangement because it's a form of advertising. Asking your friends and family to bung you twenty quid is closer to being a cheeky scrounger...

Crowdfunded TV series and films tend to have some token benefit to the donors, such as their name in the credits, merchandise, or simply the continuation of a series they want to keep watching.

Just putting a link to a crowdfunding campaign for your personal hobby up on social media is one thing, as long as individuals aren't being approached 1:1 and asked for money, which is no different than asking everyone you know for a tenner or twenty quid for any other reason.

Often people with the brass neck to expect other people to pay for them to do their hobbies like this are takers generally with massively thick skins, and get what they want by putting others in a position where they're embarrassed to say no.

GreenFlamingo11 · 11/06/2018 17:01

Yes, I know I don't have to donate, and I'm not going to. That's not the point of my question. I just think it's cheeky expect other people to fund your hobby. What happens if they money doesn't get raised? Will they just not participate in an event they've been training for a year for?
Seems like quite a risk to me to put yourself in that position.

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Littletreefrog · 11/06/2018 17:05

Might be cheeky but shy bairns get nowt. At least they are not pretending it's for charity or something.

nokidshere · 11/06/2018 17:06

Who cares really? Give or don't give. No one is being forced so as long as they are truthful about what's its for it's up to the person giving isn't it?

NerrSnerr · 11/06/2018 17:11

Loads of people do this, especially for age group triathlon world championships because the organisers use the lure of an international vest to make money. I occasionally give to young sports people's crowd funding when they are working towards becoming professional but need the competitions to work their way up. I don't think it's cheeky, I wouldn't do it myself because most of the people I know aren't loaded and I wouldn't want to guilt them but I don't mind giving £5 to help someone in their sport.

Atalune · 11/06/2018 17:17

Friends of ours are crowdfunding to send their 13 year old DD to Nepal for 3 weeks for an educational trip of a lifetime.

Jog on!

GorgonLondon · 11/06/2018 17:54

atalune I hope you feel the same way about people who get married and expect everyone else to pay for them to go on holiday afterwards!

ThroughThickAndThin01 · 11/06/2018 17:56

Not quite the same Gorgon as you’d be giving a present anyway.

catinasplashofsunshine · 11/06/2018 17:57

Gorgon I'm not a wedding fan but that's totally different because the people giving money as presents have been invited to a party/ meal at least. There's some reciprocity, not just "bung me a tenner because I want to do this hobby activity/ holiday and I don't want to pay for it myself, nothing in it for you but I'm worth it"

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