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to ask about your worst mix-ups/misunderstandings?

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Echobelly · 11/06/2018 10:15

Was thinking about this after a minor mix up yesterday - we were heading to visit my grandparents after a day in town, DH went into one shop, I was taking the kids into another and we were going to meet by tube. Couldn't find him afterwards, his phone was going straight to answer phone, so eventually I left a message to say I was going home. Thought just maybe he was on the tube platform, so went there, but no. As a last ditch, sent him a whatsapp (we don't really use it between ourselves) and he replied that he was on the tube and nearly home, but would explain when I was out!

Turned out he was only just behind us, and he saw us standing by the tube entrance, then a group of people went past and after that he couldn't see us, so thought we must have gone into the tube (we'd gone into a corner shop). Then he saw a lift had just gone, so went in, then a train was on the platform, so he couldn't see us and hopped on assuming we were on it. Why he thought I'd just go off without him I have no idea, but there you go.

We had a much worse one years ago when doing building work at our flat - the freeholders lived upstairs and were being very exacting about how we did everything and we were bending over backwards to do everything to get their permission - we had no intention of doing the knock-through we planned without their permission. Then suddenly went outright aggressive and sending us cease and desist notices to stop all building work! Eventually we abandoned the knock through as it wasn't worth the fight, but we told them we had to do the rest as the flat was uninhabitable otherwise.

Anyway, eventually, a few years later when they were still asking us to pay some money to do with the legal fees, we got together with them to talk things over. Turned out, as I had suspected, wife upstairs had come down and asked the builders when they were going to do the knockthrough, and they said 'On Thursday' or whatever... failing to add that that was only if we had the freeholder's permission!

One of the freeholders clearly thought she'd 'got us' when she told me what the builders had said, and seemed amazed when I looked her in the eye and told her that yes, I was quite sure we did tell them to start on that day - at that time we were just answering a few questions for them and we had assumed they were going to OK it once they had our reply, but we would never have done it without them approving it.

The freeholders thought they'd caught us lying and we all went through all that aggro for nothing.

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PavlovianLunge · 11/06/2018 10:44

Years ago, as a wouldn’t-say-boo-to-a-goose 15 year-old, I went for work experience at a local bank branch. Early on, I was sorting some papers, when someone asked me ‘Are you Ian?’. I didn’t really catch what she has said, so rather than ask her what she had asked, I just replied ‘Yes.’ I’m not Ian. It was only a little later, when she, and other people were addressing me as Ian, that I realised what she had asked me.

I can’t remember how I got around to telling them my actual name, but my toes still curl a little bit at the memory.

Echobelly · 11/06/2018 10:49

Bad luck, Ian!

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theressomethingaboutmarie · 11/06/2018 10:49

I think it was the time that I inadvertently suggested, as a very innocent 16-year-old, that my elderly English teacher was slow to orgasm.....

We had this amazing English teacher who I adored. She was ALWAYS late for class and on one occasion, another teacher came by and said, "name is coming but it'll take her a while", I answered (meaning just about her always being late), "story of her life". The other teacher just looked at me with her eyes wide and it took a few seconds to realise what I'd said and how it had been interpreted. Cue the entire class pissing themselves laughing and me looking for a hole to hide in. The lovely teacher in question had obviously been told what I'd said as when she walked in, she gave me a huge smile and a wink and I died once more.

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