I had a group of friends for some years. Two of them have seemed to be trying to let the friendship with me and one of the others slide for some time.
They now rarely contribute to what was a once daily chat etc. I’ve spent time worrying about why and trying to dissect what I’ve done wrong but to be honest I’m tired of it all and so if they’ve had enough then so be it.
The reason for posting is that for some years we’ve all exchanged birthday presents, nothing big just flowers or fizz or candle etc. It’s my birthday next month and I really want to put a stop to this now as the last year or so I have felt the presents are out of habit and obligation rather than proper friendship. Where once we’d exchange presents and have a night out, now they’re just stealthily left on a doorstep without even a hello to accompany them.
I don’t really want to be awkward or make a big deal out of it but equally I don’t want the present exchange farce to continue and would rather it stopped at my turn if you see what I mean!
How can I say no presents politely?