So we took the DCs to the farm and a nearby park, me and stbexh. I had an Argos delivery coming between 2 and 6pm. Anyway, at the park I received a text from Argos saying that they will be there between 2 and 3.30pm, at 2.20pm Argos delivery guy called me and said he’s outside the house waiting, I told him I’ll be there in 10 mins and hang up. The park is literally 10-15 mins from our house anyway stbexh heard it and said
Him: There’s no way you’ll be there in 10 mins, you’re such an idiot. Why are you lying to him?
.. I was shocked at he would call me an idiot for such a small thing that had nothing to do with him and in the park!
Me: Why are you speaking to me like that? Even if I don’t get there in time, I’ll call the guy and tell him I won’t make it and I’ll get it delivered another day.
Him: pointing at me, you annoy me and I can’t just sit there and let you lie to someone.
By this point people were looking at us, because he made it look like we were arguing and I just walked off and stopped speaking to him. On the way home we didn’t speak, but I just looked at him and thought to myself this is exactly why we’re getting divorced, it kind of reinforced my feelings. It was such a fun day, and the kids and I really enjoyed ourselves, we stroked the animals, had some ice cream. And the he just killed it in the end.
I made it home on time and the sweet delivery guy was waiting for me in his van, just outside my house.
Anyone had a moment like this where you just think, this is exactly WHY you’re an ex.