Basically DP and DS are attending an event tomorrow which they pre booked several weeks ago. Sod’s law DS gets sent home early from school with a high temp, I think it’s the virus that’s been circulating the house, my Dd had it last Saturday, sister had it tues into weds and me weds into Thursday. After some medicine and 6 hours of being normal he’s took a turn and spiked a fever again. I suggested to DP he should go by himself tomorrow as not to waste the money and he’s meeting some people there so he won’t be alone, but he almost got offended at the suggestion stating that we will see how DS is in the morning as his fever may have passed, which is true but I noted I was concerned that he may take a turn again in the day tomorrow and he said If he does we will come home. I said That’s not fair to himself as he’s gonna miss out, and he started going into one saying he won’t go at all because it’s not fair to DS If he misses it. I still stood by the fact he shouldn’t go but DP is convinced he will be better in the morning, he most likely will but I’m still not sure he should go, aibu?