So me and DP are separating, we're in the process of splitting the days. Basically he wants to pick the DCs from school three days a week and take them to my house and spend time with them here. So from 4-6pm something like that, the thing is I don't want to see him that often and I don't want him to see them at my house.
I just feel like it's so easy and convenient for him to bring them to my house, have a cup of tea, play with them for 10min and play on his phone for the rest of the time whilst the DCs are playing in their bedrooms. I can just imagine that this is how it will be, cuz it's like that right now.
And then there's his mum, she doesn't like me and the feeling is mutual. We've had so many problems in the past and I can't stand her, if he's here to see the kids she's going to want to see them here aswell. I mean this is a woman who already comes to our house 3-4 times a week.
I just feel like he wants it easy, come here and see them. If he had to take them somewhere, he would have to make an effort and actually spend time with them.
Or if he had to see them at his house, there wouldn't be a room to sent them to. So again, he'd have to spend time with them. He's never taken them anywhere on his own, if he does take them somewhere it's always with his mum. I take them to places on my own, parks, indoor playground etc.
AIBU to be annoyed by this?