Well STBXH
We married for 25 years & have 2DC (16 & 19).
When we split the youngest choose to live with his Dad as he didn’t want him to be on his own. It’s fine - we message most days & see each other a few times a week.
The eldest is at uni & comes back to me during the holidays.
Last week I was visiting an elderly relative (from his side) & she asked how I felt about Ex & DS2 moving abroad.
It was first I’d heard of it.
DCs & Ex have had many discussions about it.
DC2 is meant to be starting an apprenticeship in September but he has been sold this amazing opportunity to move to another country (Tanzania)
BTW the move has come about because EXs new GF is moving for work.
I just feel upset no one bothered to tell me. AIBU ?