Everything was well when me and my dh first got together and I met his parents and they generally seemed like lovely people, wasn’t really until we got married that dh mother just started to really pick on me. As an example everything I say she debates it and is so condescending. As an example, every year we invite them round for Christmas dinner and last year I decided to cook it and the rest of the family ate it all saying it was delicious of course apart from my mil who said the meat “Itastes too sweet” and ended up not eating any of the dinner at all. I find myself trying so hard to just impress her when I’m with her but she ends up just making jokes about me and even once said to my kids in front of me “I bet you wish I was your mother for at least a week” and laughed. It’s got to the point where I can’t stand to be around her anymore, but I try so hard to keep the peace as I know that dh is very close with his mother and I don’t want to harm their relationship. We have a family holiday this summer and she’s coming along, absolutely dreading it. Also going to mention that she’s absolutely fine with my SIL.
Am I being unreasonable or is she acting oddly with me?