Hi sorry this may be a long post,
I have a 12 year old brother with a big age gap of 15 years between us, it started with someone telling me he had a girlfriend so I was joking with him asking who she was and he denied it as id expect him to at his age, he didn't want to discuss these things with his big sister.
He was playing a game on his phone and paused it to get a drink, I picked his phone up to do run me the game and he ran back and literally dived at me to het it off me so this made me suspicious! Later when he left his phone I snooped (I now wish I didn't and wernt in this position) but I looked at his pictures and there were screen shots off the web of scientific explanations of both female and male genitals so though he was just curious but then there were screen shots of loads of sex position definitions ( some I've never heard of) so thought maybe he's heard people saying them at school and wants to know what they mean ECT so I thought I'd check his web history so see what he's actually searching like if he's looking how to do it or just what it is and found that he has been going on a porn site ALOT! I don't know what to do or if he's doing anything with anyone else ect( there was no evidence that he was like no messages or pics being sent between him and anybody else). I don't k ow weather to tell my mum, ignore it or try and talk to him myself, I don't want him watching porn and thinking it's all real or is this all normal at this age?
He doesn't have a father figure in his life so no male role model that's ever had any talks with him and I know my mum probably just thinks he's still her sweet little innocent boy and I think she would feel very awkward having to bring it up with him and I don't want to get him in trouble if this is normal.
Sorry for the long post and i know i was BU looking at his phone