Long story short .. h left for OW. I stayed in the house for a while but it became too much for me to live in the small community where we are. I used a lawyer to force him to sell and split the proceeds and to move the kids to a new school with me in the nearest town. I got a new job. I lived in a rental and then bought my own house. Moved yesterday got a moving company to do the work. Today surrounded by boxes and heavy furniture all in the wrong places. My friend said she would come and help but she has just cried off. Kids with him at his insistence even though they wanted to help. So now here I am alone. How do I unpack when I have massive shelves and wardrobes and a piano to move? Feeling really alone and having a little cry.