Its half term, dh and I are both teachers. We have Dd6 (almost 7) and dd1. Made an effort to do things this half term just with dd6 as she has struggled a bit with adjusting to having a little sister. Dh took her to the theatre and out for ice cream, I took her to the cinema and shopping, so, 1:1 time with each of us. Weve also done lots of fun things like den building, been to visit grandparents and celebrated birthdays with family. Dh was just about to take them both to soft play so that I can blitz the house as its filthy. Ive left all of the cleaning and done zero school work because we've been playing. We have birthday parties to attend this weekend - botb dd6's friends. Dd6 has just had a bit of a melt down because dh said that we'd go swiming this week and we havent. She just told us we'd broken our promise and let her down. Dh is now bleating on about what terrible parents we are. Im pissed off. Firstly, because dd6 has had some pretty expensive treats this half term. Secondly, because the only day we had free to go swimming, dd6 had been up choughing during the night so didnt want to go and we built a den instead. I dont think im a bad parent. I tried my best but I cant physically make more time. Dh now wants to take her thid evening. I dont. I think she needs to learn not to be so entitled and recognise that she cant always have things on her terms. Before her meltdown id said wed go swimimg on Monday after school and I want to stick to that. They've all just left the house without even saying goodbye. Dh is pissed off because I didnt profusely apologise to dd6 and agree that we let her down like he did. Instead, I told her I understood her disappointment but that her attitude was hurtful after all of the lovely things we had tried to do for her this holiday. I didnt shout or tell her off, I just didnt pander to her. Aibu? I need one person to at least tell me im not. I feel so hurt but racked with guilt at the same time. Im also pissed off that, once again, im the bad guy.