Friend goes loopy at DH for liking a female on Twitter it escalated over the course of a couple of weeks she tells him to leave he views a flat, tells the dc, she files for divorce on line. She begs him to stay and suggests counselling. She comes over to mine and admits she went OTT and was acted like a madwoman, and was embarrassed of her behaviour with her DH. she blames her hormones. She covers over to mine and we discuss the situation. I thought I was being sympathetic and urged her not to do anything rash. Since then she has blanked me. When I've sent the odd supportive text she's ignored it or just said "thx". Tonight a mutual friend said she thought I was very negative because I had urged her to check she had enough money in her bank before she did anything rash. TBH i cant remember exactly what I said but I do remember treading carefully and suggested she think about the all the consequences -inc financial-if she split the family up. I'm really rather upset that someone I thought of as a friend and care for would effectively drop me because she perceived I was being negative when I was genuinely trying to help I've spent the last few weeks upset and worrying. AIBU? Ps her and DH are on hol with Dc in Maldives