Have NC for this. For context...
We are a 2 parent household, both working. Always have, apart from 9 months maternity leave. Will be taking my second round this summer. Normal working hours around 21pw. DH full time.
We are fortunate to get by on our wages in an expensive part of the country. This is mostly due to having very low (well, low by local standards) housing costs and living pretty frugally. Other than CB & stat mat pay, I've never claimed a benefit. I have been starting to worry though about how we will cope for the time period in which I'll be bringing home stat. mat. pay only. The difference between my normal wage and stat. mat pay is around £1k a month, that £1k covers our housing cost inc. c. tax. Obviously economies can be made, but not amounting to £1k. I understand that TCs are based on last year's income. My 2017-18 income will be broadly similar to 2018-19 as both tax years will include a period of mat leave with roughly the same number of months of stat. mat. pay.
A family member has advised me to look into claiming tax credits. They are also a 2 parent family to 4 DC. One works FT, the other hasn't worked since the 2nd DC was born and has no intention of returning, at least for the foreseeable future. I don't know what they get in tax credits, but it constitutes an income sufficient for 1 adult to meet their own personal expenses as a SAHP, buy household groceries and clothe the DC. (The working parent pays the mortgage / bills / car costs etc and they don't share finances.)
So, on this person's advice, I looked into the possibility and found that when DC2 is born, we would be entitled to around £300 every 4 weeks. However, it seems that actually we now have UC in our area, and the exact same information inputted produces an amount of around £1100 annually, so a fraction of the £300 every 4 weeks we would otherwise have received.
As I said, I've always worked, I'm not au fait with the benefit system. So can anyone explain to me how or why this is so? It would seem unfair. I have pretty much already come to the conclusion that for £1100 a year, the hoops I would have to jump through are not going to be worth jumping through for us. (Is it really true that they expect you to go to interviews / groups etc at the job centre?? I can think of things I'd rather be doing on what will be my last maternity leave...) I'd sooner find a way to up my earnings by that amount.
I'm trying not to compare myself with said family member. I don't want to be a SAHM. I like my job, I'm good at it, it pays me relatively well, there's a lot of flexibility. I wouldn't want the life they have, although I completely respect anyone's right to try and build the kind of life they want. But I can't help feeling it's a little unfair that the other family is supported year on year to keep one parent at home and will be seemingly indefinitely whereas the only support available to me during a (short!!) period of much reduced income due to maternity leave is so minimal (under £15pw according to the website calculator) that it's barely worth claiming. Is this an unreasonable way to feel?
Sorry that was so long. I'm prepared to be educated on this, I've probably failed to consider things. Information or views from all sides welcome.