Sorry not really AIBU but didn't know where to post.
I'm asking for advise about a friend. Well we aren't that close any more but I've known her since I was 4 and grown up together. Our families are close friends. We used to go on holidays together and all family parties. My Dsis is close friends with her sis too.
She had a child very young and the dad left. I feel from that point on she struggled with her health and generally looking after her DD. She has had alot of family support though. Anyway she's recently been dianogised with Bi polar. We had a feeling she might have been. She's very up and down and erratic sometimes. I found out she was pregnant last year. Her Dsis told me. It seems everyone knows apart from her parents which she is hiding it from. She's very small and the baby has health problems and isn't growing.
She's drunk all through her pregnancy. She lets people get stoned around her all the time. She rang her Dsis this weekend and said she wanted to kill herself and didn't know if she could even look after her DD atm. She can't go on medication until after the baby is born. And what prompted me to write this now is she's just posted on social media her drinking cocktails at 11am. I feel like she's out of control now.
I feel sorry for her and think she needs help. Also think something needs to be done with regards to her having help looking after DD and then when she has the new baby too.
What should I do? Should I get involved??