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To say how proud I am of DD2 (17)

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MaitlandGirl · 28/05/2018 14:06

DD2 has just split up with her boyfriend of 6 mths. He was her first serious boyfriend and I’m so proud of how she’s handled everything.

He started out as a nice lad, but lately I realised he was getting controlling, wasn’t very respectful of her as a person and was gaslighting her.

I offered advice and she told me she’d already decided to end it with him as she “deserves better”.

There was an incident in school today and she told him straight up that he was scaring her and being disrespectful (which the teacher overheard and dealt with immediately).

I’m so proud of her - she’s had a lot of issues with friends letting her down and I think he targeted her as she was vulnerable but she’d rather be sitting alone at school than still involved with the ex.

She’s a much stronger person than I was at her age and I’m so proud that it didn’t take a marriage and children before she realised he was no good.

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Uncreative · 27/06/2018 01:33

Good for her for having the sense to see it when she did, I hope that she will always have the courage to act according to her convictions. If there was any doubt in her mind, this will help her see she did the right thing.

MaitlandGirl · 30/06/2018 15:41

Just realised the ‘illegal weapons’ bit sounded very dramatic and a bit OTT. He’s been caught with an illegal type of knife and another knife that is legal to buy, but he’s not old enough to buy knives. He was caught in school so doubly stupid.

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Cathena · 30/06/2018 16:37

Huge congrats to your daughter op. It takes guts to stand up to someone you are dating and a lot of self belief to say ‘I deserve more’. I wish my younger sister had an ounce of your daughters confidence!

Birdsgottafly · 30/06/2018 16:37

Just realised the ‘illegal weapons’ bit sounded very dramatic and a bit OTT

Nothing OTT about it. Young Men are being stabbed to death daily. He's going down a very dangerous path.

My middle DD was involved with a no-good lad and I prayed daily that it would end.In a way i'm thankful he hit her as soon as he did, because she wasn't at the stage were she'd stay.

As long as he accept it's over and moves on.

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