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to ask why people allow their children to be inconsiderate

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sensesensibility · 26/05/2018 23:06

I was at a concert for kids today at the Royal Albert Hall (I know - v mumsnet!) with my 2 DS and husband. Live orchestra, playing classical and film music. It was under 2 hours, with an interval. The family next to us had 3 kids, aged btw 4-9 at a guess. For the ENTIRE show they talked at full volume, ate crisps and popcorn constantly, got up, jumped around and at times fought with each other. At no point did the parents intervene, apart from chatting to their kids about random things, again at full volume, and opening yet another packet of loud snacks.

Tickets were not cheap - £30pp, and this was a special day out for us, disturbed not only by this family, but plenty of us who treated the whole thing like they were watching it in their living room. At times we couldn't hear the music as the chatting and eating was so loud.
It showed a total lack of respect to the musicians, singers and actors, as well as their fellow audience members. I'm not expecting kids to be silent little statues, but surely most children can sit without needing to eat for 45 mins at a time, and can be taught to whisper if they need something, rather than chat at full volume. There are also quieter snacks than sodding hula hoops and popcorn!

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BlankTimes · 26/05/2018 23:15

Where were the staff who could have had a word?

sensesensibility · 26/05/2018 23:34

There were ushers dotted around and they stopped most kids who were running around but they didn’t go any further than that. I really wanted to say something, but lost my nerve a bit.

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Candlelight123 · 26/05/2018 23:36

Some people are dicks and think their precious darlings can do no wrong.

Eggzandbacon · 26/05/2018 23:42

Last time we went to the theatre the family in front of us spent the whole time eating and fidgeting and talking.
Stay at bloody Home and do this shit!

Notso · 26/05/2018 23:48

It's not exclusive to parents and children, the last few times we've been to watch plays, bands and comedians twats have spoiled it by chatting loudly, constant getting up and down, and dicking about taking selfies etc.

frasier · 26/05/2018 23:54

To answer your question, I think it doesn't occur to some parents that their children are annoying others. They don't think beyond themselves and their family.

I'm surprised they bothered to go though if they weren't listening.

Lilao · 26/05/2018 23:57

I went to the theatre last weekend and the little darling behind me stuck their feet through the back of my seat into my bum.

When I jumped forward and turned around to tell them the mother didn't even apologise, or get the child to and just said to them, just be careful with your feet.

The child later did it again!

kazillionaire · 27/05/2018 00:03

I went to see Swan Lake at the Royal Opera House and I have to say that the children in the audience were really well behaved, all were entranced by the ballet. Seems I was quite lucky compared to some other people's experiences

SandyY2K · 27/05/2018 00:13

They allow their children to be inconsiderate...... .because they are inconsiderate parents. I would have had to say something to them.

I've done so before when a group of teens were chatting constantly during a film.

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