DD 14 was walking back from school with her friend a few weeks ago. The ‘popular’ girls of the years started teasing them, shouting they’d never been kissed, had a boyfriend, etc... and then started shouting out “frigid wannabe sluts.” Finally, the ring leader threw a stone which hit DD on the back before her friend turned around, shouted “oh fuck off you immature little girls.”
The girls then left.
DD’s friend and DD reported it to the school who said to them, it happened outside of school, we can’t do anything. They didn’t give a shit.
A week later, DD’s friend came across a post on FB referring to the ringleader with her codename, along the lines of ‘xx is making my life hell, really don’t know what to do.’
A few other girls had commented, nothing nasty just ‘she said x to me’ or ‘me too.’ DDs friend commented on the post mentioning what happened to her and DD. This mentioned my DD name and DD was there when friend posted the public reply.
Again, name was not actually mentioned of the bully.
Bullies dad found out, printed off FB comment section, has gone to the school and now all the girls who commented on the post have detention all week and have to go to a bullying workshop. This includes my DD, as her name was mentioned on post and she said she was there when friend posted it.
But fuck all has been done about the actual bully, who again today has bullied DD and friend on the way home, calling them ‘vile sneaky cunts.”
I don’t agree with the Facebook comments, such matters should not be publicly discussed and I’ve told DD this.
But AIBU to think it’s crazy that despite all the girls saying this bully has treated them like shit and multiple reports, the only punishment doled out here is too the victims of the bully?? The head master said to my face straight “there’s no evidence and it allegedly happened outside of campus”
They have 7 girls reporting the bullies behaviour FFS!