I’ve been married to DH for 15 years and haven’t seen or heard from my ex since then. Ex DH and I were married for 12 years and i was single for seven between marriages. Ex and I sort of kept in touch after we divorced but all contact ceased when I remarried and he moved to another part in of the country with the OW for whom he dumped me. They had a child shortly after they got together. We are now both in our mid 60’s if that’s relevant.
Today I’ve had a message from him via FB, cryptically saying he’s been living in his new wife’s country for the last 5 years and is now contemplating moving there permanently. He has said he’s coming over to the UK in a few weeks time to put his property on the market and sort out his UK affairs generally and has asked if I will meet him “probably for the last time” to use his own words, while he is here. His new home is a European country, not the other side of the world. The general tone of his message was sad and final.
Am I mad to be even considering meeting him - even for an hour - to find out what’s going on with him? In spite of the circumstances we parted reasonably amicably and I wish him the best. I’ve been completely thrown by this and genuinely dont know what to do. I have his email address but no contact phone number. All MN wisdom would be much appreciated.