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To think my boss has set me up

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RunsforCake14 · 23/05/2018 12:36

I'm a sports coach for after school clubs in local primary schools. We're a small company - just me and my boss.
At the beginning of the year I had siblings join one of my classes. Initially it was fine then the parents started being late to collect them. Sometimes just 10 mins but then took another 10mins to get the children changed and leave. Other times they were more than 20mins late. Not every week - maybe every 3 or 4 wks.

About a week ago I asked my boss if I could give them a letter stating that if they were late again we would have to reconsider their place in the club because it's causing problems at the school. They also do weekend club with my boss and are always late to arrive and be collected.

My boss said he would deal with it as they hadn't paid for classes for about 6 weeks. I've just had a phone call with him and I'm shocked and upset at what he's done.

He texted the parents and said "Runs no longer wants your children in her class as they are never collected on time and are disruptive." He goes on to say they need to pay for the classes they have attended with me (but makes no mention of his classes).

Unsurprisingly the parents are angry at me. And have texted my boss with a personal attack on me, calling me racist, an unfit parent and shouldn't be allowed to go near children. One child has SEN (hence the "disruptive" comment), but I've always tried to include them and given them space when needed. And after every class I've spoken to the parent collecting to explain what has happened.

To add further insult they say my boss is excellent and while they'd be happy to pay him, they refuse to give me anything and would like to see me sacked.

I've no idea what to do. My boss says he will ignore it. They've withdrawn the children from all our clubs so he thinks that'll be the end of it.
But I'm really angry that he's blamed me for this. I don't know if I should try and contact the parents and explain what really happened or just leave it alone and hope they don't take it any further.

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DevilsDoorbell · 23/05/2018 12:40

You need to speak to your boss and say that is not what you asked for and explain that he has now inflamed the situation I wouldn’t be happy at all

wowfudge · 23/05/2018 13:07

So he's put money first, above the other kids in the classes and you, his employee. That's what this boils down to. He's spineless. He should stand up for you and clarify with them.

I agree with DevilsDoorbell and don't contact the parents directly yourself. Should they contact you, refer them to your boss or forward their emails or messages to him.

RunsforCake14 · 23/05/2018 13:12

Thanks DevilsDoorbell and wowfudge. I've spoken to my boss and told him how unhappy I am with the situation. He claims he'd forgotten I offered to write a letter to the parents but now thinks he's done the right thing as I don't have to worry about dealing with the late collection of the kids any more. He really doesn't see that there's a problem.

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CluelessMummy · 23/05/2018 14:16

Wow, this was very spineless of him. As for the parents though, their OTT outrage at you surely just boils down to the fact that they don't want to have to pay up for the six weeks' worth of clubs they've sent their kids to for free. So I wouldn't take any of what they say personally. And your boss is right in the sense that at least you won't have to deal with the situation anymore, despite the injustice of it all.

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