Today is the first anniversary of my Dad's death which makes it a very hard day for me anyway as we were very close, so my friend suggested that we went to a local brewsters with our lo's to cheer me up (a lovely thought!) which they were very excited about.
We got to hers and had a quick coffee while the lo's played, all the while she was saying come on lets get ready to go and jollying them along, then when it came to it she said to her dd 'do you want to go for lunch or would you rather stay here to eat?' to which her dd said she wanted to stay at home, but mine wanted to go. So after some crying by my ds2 it was decided that as her dd wanted to stay at home then thats what we would do! so mine ended up really disapointed (as did i actually as i need a bit of cheering up) and crying all the way home!
Don't know if i'm being a bit silly and over sensitive (which i probably am) but they would have been happy to go, why did she have to change the choices!!