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Reasonable time to stay after dinner

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sachabloom · 22/05/2018 10:03

So if you invite someone over for dinner, what time is acceptable for them to stay until?

We invited a relative for dinner, and after dinner (8pm) they stayed until 1am (weeknight). Which was tricky because I get up at 5.30 for work and had to drop them home.

Now I don't want to be a dragon, but is that unreasonable? And also, am I a wimp for waiting until they suggested going home? It's my OHs relative, who I really get on with and enjoy their company but just not that late. Should he have said something? I haven't mentioned it to him because I don't want him to think I'm not happy to make an effort for his side. Probably sound like I'm being a bit mean!

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paxillin · 22/05/2018 18:59

I am a night owl, but would only stay an hour or two after dinner unless the protestations at our proposed departure make it clear we truly are still welcome.

Don't want the hosts to put on their pyjamas and brush their teeth during my visit.

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