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DH and the ruined cot

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WindyNeighbour · 17/05/2018 15:27

A bit of backstory ... Last year we bought an cot but DC was too small for it and would not sleep in it due to there being so much space. We used a next 2 me crib and DC has only just got too old for it at 9mo due to sitting, crawling and standing in it.

Anyway, our home was originally built in the early 1900s and we got a lot of problems with humidity due to double glazing holding it in (as soon as the windows are closed after being open, it boxes it in again). We managed to solve the issue permanently now but in December, I noticed a musky, damp smell and looked everywhere. Some of our walls had grown mould in weird places you wouldn't think condensation usually grows (like inner walls at skirting height) and when I looked for something under the cot on a separate occasion, there was a whole layer of mould (it looked like someone had built sand dunes on it, growing downwards from the cot). We'd never noticed because we'd pull the cot out to hoover and never needed to look under it. I pointed it out to DH and said he'd have to take it down and get rid of it.

It turned out it was only growing on the bottom ply where it wasn't treated wood. Now DC needs to be moved into a cot, DH wants to make a complaint because he said lots of people have old homes like ours and the ply should also have been treated/external ply for this reason. I told DH he was being ridiculous and that we have two options, as we kept the rest of the cot to try to obtain another part for the cot from the store we got it from (somehow I don't think it's going to be easy to just pick up the ply as a spare part because it specifically has to fit this cot) or buy a new cot.

DH is still saying he wants to complain about it, refuses to even explore the option of buying a new cot and is really annoyed. I don't think IABU, am I?

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WeWere0nABreak · 17/05/2018 17:24

Just wanted to say, don't leave it long with whatever you do! I didn't order our cot until DD was pulling up in the next2me - there was a 6-8 week order time for the one I wanted 🙈

She spent 2 months in a little baby tent on our floor, which she adored as she could crawl out of it at will, so I got zero sleep!

RubberJohnny · 17/05/2018 17:52

The chemicals they use on ply to make it mould and damp resistant are highly toxic. I wouldn't want my baby sleeping on that and inhaling off gases every night.

daisym00n · 17/05/2018 18:01

My BIL once varnished a chest of drawers, left it in a cold, damp garage for a week, it warped and the drawers wouldn’t close. He took it back and complained, got a refund and then asked for petrol money for his inconvenience. So anything’s possible.

Racecardriver · 17/05/2018 18:06

Why won't you let him complain if he wants to? It does actually pretty stupid to have untreated ply instead of slats. Children also sweat in their sleep, they also wet the bed and vommit. Good air supply to the mattress is quite important.

bearbehind · 17/05/2018 18:06

But at least your BIL had the drawers and could prove they didn't shut daisy, the OP doesn't even have the cot base anymore.

TroubledLichen · 17/05/2018 18:29

Well if the base is long gone then how will your DH complain Grin

But yes, just go to Ikea and get a new one. It will be less than £50.

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