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Children and private appointments

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Jaxtellerswife · 17/05/2018 07:42

I have two children and I'm extremely overdue for a smear test. Years overdue. I really want to get it done but I have no one to have the children for me. How do others handle this kind of thing? Is there a policy of any kind that children can't attend? I don't want to horrify the kids. They are 3 and 1. Obviously the one year old isn't really an issue but the 3 year old l, I don't know what I can do. This must be a common situation, I'm just wondering what others do?

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icelolly99 · 17/05/2018 09:42

I'd take the younger one and go whilst the older one is at playgroup.

soapboxqueen · 17/05/2018 09:44

higgy I had wanted to take my dd because I didn't want to have to announce to everyone where I was going. Not that is a massive issue either way. I was told over the phone that the team would not carry out the procedure if a child was present.

Flicketyflack · 17/05/2018 09:59

Had my smear with children present when they were younger. Keep them chatting Smile

User12879923378 · 17/05/2018 10:05

Receptionists at my surgery will fight amongst themselves for the chance to hold a baby or entertain a toddler so that's how they deal with it.

0lgaDaPolga · 17/05/2018 11:00

I took my son to one when he was 8 months and he just sat in his pram. I was in and out of there in about 5 mins so he was fine. With the 3 year old I’d just bring a couple of distractions like a snack or your phone and he will be fine

Jaxtellerswife · 17/05/2018 17:58

Thanks all. I rang and the receptionist didn't know if it was ok so I have to ring back tomorrow.....thanks for replies

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4yearsnosleep · 17/05/2018 19:25

Just take them. Due to ongoing issues from childbirth, my now 4 year old has been to a ridiculous number of vaginal exams. More often than not she just plays with my phone but sometimes asks awkward questions 🤷🏽‍♀️ IMO it's more important that they're exposed to routine exams so that they are less taboo when older

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