In here for traffic as need as much info as possible!
As not to drip feed - OH is a farmer, (south wales) doesn't own a farm his parents do and he is self employed so works solely on his own, rents various fields around the village for sheep and has a workshop at his dads farm.
He no longer lives in the village as he was living with parents but for various reasons had to move out and now lives "up town" with me.
Since moving out he has been finding it increasingly difficult/tiring having to travel back and fall to the farm when various emergencies have arisen (sheep lambing, animals escaping etc) so we have been desperately trying to buy a house together in the village but they very rarely come up and when they do they are just so far out of our price range.
We bought a plot of land last year in the village, roughly 1.5 acres purely just for keeping a few sheep in, and now I have started to think maybe we should see if we can apply for planning permission for a small house, even a bungalow, so we are closer.
I have googled until my eyes are sore and I still don't understand the process fully.
The field has no water or electricity so obviously that will need to be taken into consideration.
The village is also on a green belt so planning laws are very very strict but we were hoping as he has a real need for being in the village there might be a chance it gets approved, even if its only a very small dwelling.
Would need to be at least 3 bed though as he already has one DC and we are trying this year for one together.
Building on his dads farm is not an option - no wiggle room on that unfortunately.
So, my question is, for those of you that have self built how did you finance it? I cant see us having more than around 20k upfront to play with so how did you pay your builders? How did you even find builders? I have seen horror stories of builders being paid upfront and then disappearing half way through the job - how do you make sure this doesn't happen?
What do we need from start to finish, i know we need an architect but do we need someone else like a planning person initially?
We arent confident enough to employ people ourselves and be there all the time as I work full time and OH is now working 14 hours a day into the summer.
What sort of up front costs are we looking at before planning has even been approved? Are there any mistakes you made you could warn us about?
What size did you build and how much did it cost?
Any info greatly appreciated, thankyou!!