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To think this is dangerous at my DS nursery

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stripesandspots10 · 15/05/2018 08:44

Dropped my D'S off to nursery just now. He is in the middle room for toddlers. We have to walk through the pre school room to get to his. As we walked through this morning, there were two children with scissors having a scissor fight.
I looked at the workers and the room manager was on the tablets not paying attention. The other was answering the door to all the parents. As I walked back through to go one of the two still had scissors and she finally looked up and told him to put them down as it weren't good behaviour.

I know they are childrens scissors but if they poked each other in the eyes or fell on them. I don't understand why they are freely out for them to grab. In the mornings the two rooms play together for an hour so my DS could wonder into that room and grab them or get caught up in a "scissor play fight".

AIBU to think that they should be put away in a cupboard firstly. And secondly she shouldn't be on the tablet when she's suspose to be watching the children.

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Inkspellme · 15/05/2018 18:32

No to scissor fights but yes to access to scissors for preschoolers and upwards. No need for them to be locked away for that age group. They just need to be taught to use them properly.

PorkyPortia · 15/05/2018 18:36

I agree with you stripes
I’d be concerned too

sharonith74 · 16/05/2018 22:23

Do you let your pre schooler's use your knives and scissors or are they out of reach, kids are unpredictable why take a risk when you know they could be a risk.
And I'm sure if kids were fighting with scissors in your child's school and your child was accidentally hurt needing first aid, you would have something to say.
The more the motherly instinct you have the more dangers you see.
And I think every mother has the right to say was is unacceptable or dangerous to there child.
There is enough violence in the world and the kids fighting with scissors must of seen it somewhere.

sharonith74 · 16/05/2018 22:27

I think your right Hun I would be exactly the same, so stick to your guns she is your child and if you spot a danger you are doing your role right as a parent, not one of those mothers who don't care and just dumped your kid of for peace.

sharonith74 · 16/05/2018 22:49

I found this from a article about a teacher being attacked.

HomeNewsUK NewsSchools
Teacher warns of 'time bomb' primary schools: ''10-year-old was looking for scissors to stab me''
Julie Smith, 37, says that over her 15-year career youngsters became increasingly abusive and threatening to staff
Julie smith says her life was ruined

All around Britain this week excited young children are going back to primary school or starting for the very first time.

The lucky ones will be washed and dressed with a nourishing breakfast inside them.
Their parents will have made sure they had a good night’s sleep so they are ready to learn.
But some are not so lucky.
One former primary school teacher today describes how she saw children coming into school dirty, hungry and exhausted after staying up after midnight watching movies and playing violent video games.

Julie Smith, 37, says that over her 15-year career youngsters became increasingly abusive and threatening to staff.

And it cost Julie her job after a rampaging 10-year-old who had threatened to stab her was locked inside a room to calm down.

Anne Maguire who stabbed to death at Corpus Christi Catholic College
Killed: Boy aged 15 stabbed Ann Maguire (Image: PA)
She believes many primary schools are at breaking point and before long someone will be seriously injured or even killed.

“It’s a time-bomb,” she said. “People need to be aware of what is happening before there is another tragedy.

“When I read about Ann Maguire being stabbed to death in Leeds I was heartbroken but it is just as likely that something bad could happen in a primary school.

“Some of the children are up all night watching 18-certificate movies and playing on these awful computer games which are so violent. It becomes normal.

“These children are not old enough to process reality and a game so they are bringing that behaviour into real-life.”

Julie, who was special educational needs coordinator at Revoe Primary School in Blackpool, says she and her colleagues had to deal nearly every day with children swearing, shouting, punching, kicking and biting.

But she never felt in real danger until the 10-year-old boy went wild.

“I did have a really good relationship with him at first but his behaviour went downhill,” she says.

“He would be abusive to me in the corridor. On this day I had to give him some bad news and he just went mad. He started rampaging around the school, flinging doors open, swearing, going into classes where teaching was going on.

“I caught up with him in the corridor and he came at me with a pencil, then threw it at me and said he was going to get a knife.”

Julie says she went to get help and other teachers confronted the boy.

“They had found him on the corridor looking for some scissors. He said he was going to stab me so they took him away and put him in a room.

"He had physically attacked them both. He had clumps of their hair and they were very badly bruised. He would have hurt somebody.”

The boy was locked into a “time-out” room to calm down but when his parents later complained of false imprisonment Julie and five other staff members, including headteacher Cath Woodall, were suspended.

sharonith74 · 19/05/2018 01:54

Hi me and my husband took our grandson to school on Thursday he is in reception, and we noticed a little girl on the street out side the gates
We were looking to see if anyone was with her, she then decided to run off over the road my husband ran after her, and nursery teacher started to appear fast, my husband came around the corner with the little girl very distressed she was.
The nursery teacher had only left the door open for late mums, but the rule is if your late the door will be locked and you must go through the main school.
That could of ended very badly the little girl was only 3 years old and tried to go home.
I bet her mum was not a happy bunny.
What are your thoughts on this please?

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