Hi all,
I really want, and really need to move on in life and to do so (like everyone, I guess) need to really up my earning potential, which is frankly pathetic and virtually impossible to live on in my area (between Kingsto and Guildford, basically- lovely but expensive for a first time buyer).
I very recently moved in with friends on a short-term basis, which is very cheap, but definitely temporary while I sort myself out (but better than living in my car!). My recent experiences have made me see I would like my own home very much, and feel that I won’t have any real stability unless I work towards this, or feel psychologically like I’m trying, at least.
The problems:
- I am single and not in debt, but on a tight, tight budget (so one salary), plus no family help (obviously I’m not entitled to this, but thought best to include as there’d be no extra help forthcoming )
- I am pushing 40, so no spring chicken first time buyer!
- I know I can’t buy in my area on my own but I can’t move to the north etc as no connections at all and I have no interest in doing so. I’d rather a shared ownership studio in the shittiest part of Croydon than a 2 bedroom house up north etc (no offence, I just don’t know the area).
How can I pull myself together and improve my earning potential, please? I currently do a carer job and also am now teaching ESOL to adults again (both of which I am enjoying), but I really need a job with more earning potential and stability.
I can’t afford and don’t want to retrain for too long (I was looking into Occupational Therapy training but £20,000 training costs for a job which pays not much more is sadly not feasible for me, but know that some retraining is probably necessary for a ‘better’ job.
I really can’t work with kids in any way ever again as it’s not for me (ex-primary school teacher), and ideally don’t want to commute as I have a phobia of tubes etc. I would love to move nearer the coast (somewhere near Portsmouth sort of areas).
I love art, creative things like the theatre, graphic design etc, animals- particularly dogs, beauty, books, travel, the outdoors, conservation, and am interested in ethical companies etc.
Sorry for long post, have had a few things happen recently, and feel I have a chance to try to improve my life now; like a now or never situation in a positive way!
Any ideas, at all?