DH angry I told his vomit story weeks later

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DH got so drunk a few weeks ago that he threw up on the sofa and kitchen floor, and didn't clear it up. Also we found a road sign at the back of the garden and he fell asleep on the lawn

I found it the next morning and was pretty pissed off but we laughed it off in the end

I told my brother and my DH overheard this, didn't seem to mind. I then told a few other friends as a funny story, again, DH made no objection

Three weeks later he is suddenly really angry that I told other people and had a massive go at me!!! WTF?! I said he didn't complain at the time and laughed along with us, told a few people himself

I'm going out tonight but have left early as he was being so shouty. Surly he is BU??

It is time to forget about as it has gone beyond being a joke with dh. He's sick of hearing you talk about it and it's reached the point where he is feeling embarrassed by his behaviour.

My DH did something similar and I was annoyed so posted his picture on Facebook and tagged him in it! All our friends thought it was hilarious and DH hasn't got so drunk again!

But it's his story to tell. I often tell people about stupid things I've done, but I wouldn't be happy if my partner was going round laughing at me over my behaviour in front of other people.

It’s not his story to tell when he vomits over your shared couch and brings a stolen item into your backyard. It would have been his story to tell if he cleaned everything up himself and hadn’t involved her.

Moral of the story: clean up after yourself.

So whether you tell the story or not is all down to dh's consent? You haven't got your own sense of what's private/appropriate and what's not?

Do people really expect vomit to be cleaned up as soon as it’s been thrown up? What kind of madness is that? Surely the op chose to clean it because I’m sure she could have waited (not practical to wait, I know. Especially with kids) until he was awake enough to do so. Regardless, I can’t be mad at someone for not cleaning up sick straight away. I had a bug and ended up with vomit on the floor, it stayed there until I could deal with it. My partner was well enough before me so went ahead and done it, he never had a go at me for it nor did he feel disgusted by me.