My best friend has not long ago escaped an abusive relationship, I am so so angry with her husband for putting her through years of this. DH says that my anger is not normal and I must have had some event in my past that triggered something (I haven't).
He feels bit sorry for him (lost his home, access to his children), I feel nothing except anger towards him as he brought all of this on himself. I actually feel a bit angry with DH too for having this attitude - they're not friends but acquaintances - but I'm not unreasonable in being so angry am I?