Long story short, I moved with my husband then boyfriend to the USA last year. We got civilly married earlier this year ( she attended) and since then our relationship has gone from being pleasant and civil to me, to being downright snubbed.
My husband is close to his mother, calls her up once a week and visits the UK every 6 weeks. For the 5 years we were together previous he would see her probably once every two months or so since she was always on holiday or bust. My point being is nothing has changed in the relationship since.
One thing that really upset me, is my mother reached out to her at the wedding for them to maybe meet for lunch sometime. My MIL turned around and said "she never goes to London, so sadly not". This is nonsense as she does once a week at least, and really hurt my mothers feelings as she was trying to be friendly and get to know her.
My mother in law simply ignores me now, when before the wedding we would email often. We are having a larger wedding at the end of the year and she refuses to discuss her plans with me
Ive sent her messages asking how she is, and she will just respond "all good". Those two words only. She will happily discuss her plans for the day with her son.
Last night I had an argument with my DH because shes been sending crap on how she feels abandoned by her son etc. Even though she recently got remarried herself and has other children. This really offended me since nothing has changed, and this all started after we got married.
He said that she thinks I don't like her, which is odd. I asked him to explain this and he said that he doesn't know, because he knows I do. But I should probably try harder. I have been trying, and at the end of my patience. She wouldn't care if I was wiped off the earth!
Does anyone have any advice, i'm so dissapointed and not sure what I can do to make things better.