Three friends planning birthday for fourth. Friend A suggests meal, but doesn’t mention at any point that they will be cooking.
Friend B and C ask D what they want and they’re keen on a themed meal eg tex mex. They let A know and say they will sort ingredients, buy presents from the group and to let them know if A wants in on it - they will all do it as a group/house. They all live together.
Friend A originally wanted to make a stir fry so says they will provide vegetables but don’t want to contribute anything else for food. They don’t want to pay for alcohol as they won’t be drinking but don’t mind paying anything for presents.
Day of the meal, friend A doesn’t reply to messages and doesn’t provide food. Goes awol until c11pm when everyone else is eating, waltzes in with a card and goes to bed. Can only assume she is sulking as her plan wasn’t followed to the letter.
Aibu to be incredibly pissed off