Long story but I have two dds. He has made my life so difficult for the last 5 years. He is the most selfish person I have ever met. I would say he is emotionally abusive and can not see how difficult his behaviour is. Sadly he will always be in my life because of my girls. Once again he has demanded to see his kids this weekend and have family time, which I just don't want to be part off. He cant see why I wouldn't want to spend time with him. He just turns up unannounced.
He makes me look like the bad one to the kids because I won't go out with him as a family. This then causes argument which will of course have an impact on the kids. I'm just so fed up having him in my life and just wish he would disappear. I'm seriously considering just moving away without telling him aibu. I just feel the impact of our relationship is having a bigger impact on the kids then it would us just leaving. Both my girls say they are happier when he isn't around because there is no arguing.
The police have been involved and they were very unhelpful saying there is nothing they can do as unfortunately he owns the property we live in. He won't go to court to get a contact order I am literally loosing the will to live.