I'll try to nutshell. Moved house 2 yr ago, DM died at same time and move was very stressful anyway so I nearly had a breakdown. We have been busy decorating (DH in the main, whilst I work and take on most of household stuff) since then. Had a few tradespeople in, mostly arranged by me.
Sorting/tidying up garden is now important to me, DH not really interested in gardening. There is a limit to what I can do as I suffer with a bad back (work related) and tbh the jobs that need doing are heavy stuff. I have tried and tried to contact countless people to do the job to no avail, keep being let down. Someone came 6 months ago and did bits and pieces but had no luck getting him back again.
DH is giving me no help or support on this whatsoever, offers no finding of numbers to try, offers to make no phonecalls and gives no verbal support, only unhelpful comments. I know he's not good on the phone but I don't enjoy phoning strangers either, and it's been increasingly stressful when they at all so unreliable, as I've told him.
I know he has a lot on his plate with his DF ill at the moment but I can't see this is an excuse (see first sentence), it's our home and we are supposed to be in a partnership to make it nice. It doesn't feel like this, it feels like I am totally on my own with this one and it's making me feel a bit numb. Does this make sense cos I am seriously upset?
I just want a nice garden for myself and DC.