I have two older brothers, we'll call them A and B.
A is the oldest, had a university education (fees and rent paid for by our dad), also had his first and second car paid for by our dad. He lives abroad, and has had about £5,000 worth of 'help' with rent etc from dad since moving abroad. He got married a few years ago, with my dad contributing about £20,000(!!!) towards the wedding - they choose to have a big beach wedding abroad. He and wife currently live in a very expensive area, and rent an apartment. They don't have children yet, and haven't expressed any plans to buy (though I doubt they could unless they moved to a more affordable area).
B is the second oldest, he chose not to go to university, started working at 18, and was living at home to save up for deposit. My dad paid for his first (and only) car. However, his girlfriend got pregnant (unplanned), and my dad gave them £25,000 towards a deposit so they could afford to buy a two bed house.
B's wife is apparently very unhappy about this: in her opinion it is unfair that B has had a house "bought for him just because he's knocked up his girlfriend", and it's causing alot of arguments between her and my brother. She actually brought this up with my dad the other day, basically saying he should give them the equivalent of the deposit she gave B: as in he should give them more because houses are more expensive in their area. I stepped in, told her it's none of her business how my dad chooses to spend his money, she's being ungrateful considering my dad forked out for her 'dream wedding', and told her she was being a CF. She left and isn't speaking to any of us now...can't say I'm that bothered!
She IS being an unbelievable CF right?!