Follow on from this
www.mumsnet.com/Talk/am_i_being_unreasonable/3228984-AIBU-re-other-mother
DD has been Home a few times for dinner the last few weeks but has been missing college a bit (I get emails informing me) but her tutor hasn’t replied to any of my emails.
Her A’levels are fast approaching and I am worried she is going to Mrs them up.
A few times she has said she is coming home to stay the night and then texted saying she has changed her mind.
Her friend contacted me this morning asking if she is ok as she posted on Twitter last night (when she said she was coming home but did not) “I challenge you to find anyone who is more heartbroken and destroyed than me right now” and “well this is the most painful thing I have ever experienced but thank god for friends like X who drop everything thing to come and get you when something shitty happens” the friend who sent the tweets to me has fallen out with DD but was worried about her and had sworn me to secrecy.
I sent DD a breezy text asking how everything is and sending lots of love and she said everything is fine.
This girl is just blowing hot and cold on her (she’s 17 
and I am stopping myself from texting the girls mother and just asking her to send DD Home to live so her DD can stop messing her about and DD can just concentrate on her bloody A’levels 