I’m new here so please bear with me.
I work in male dominated sector, have been working here for 18 months. My DD 9 has been undergoing many tests, lots of hospital appointment as she hasn’t been very well recently, I have arranged all the appointment after work so my work is not affected, yesterday I had to attend an urgent phone call from hospital lasting less than 5 mins and then later had to make an other urgent phone call and my boss shouted at me in front of the whole office telling me how frustrating it is for him to tell me to do this work - official deadline for this work is in Jan next year. I was so hurt by his behaviour. The work takes less than 30 mins. I tried talking to his boss - as we have no HR, but when I asked him if he could keep it confidential, he refused saying I’m not sure if I can do this. Now am I being unreasonable to go and tell him tomorrow how unprofessional and unacceptable my boss’s behaviour was. This would possibly mean he would make my life a hell!