To leave?

[unsuremonday]

I'll try not to make this too long but don't want to miss anything out.
Ive been married 8 years now. Things have always been okay, although there has been talk of us spitting up but we never really seen it through. We've got kids together. Lately, I don't recognise my husband. We're having quite a difficult time financially and I do know that there's a lot of stress that comes with that.
The atmosphere between us is becoming so bad and times I feel awkward being in the same room as him. When I confront him about things he puts it on me, and if I can't give an example of a time he's hurt me then it's because it hasn't happened.
I don't know if it's time to leave, or to keep at it and try and make it work. I'm so sad and down I don't know what to do. I feel lost and like a bad personal, I just want to be happy. Has anyone else been in a similar situation?

It sounds as if communication has almost completely broken down. After this long and with children I would want to be certain I’d tried everything so I would explore couples counselling.

Might he/ you or both of you be depressed? Financial difficulties plus a family can be so stressful and a breakdown in communication can be the nail in the coffin.

Someone will be along very soon to say there’s an OW and I guess there could be but from what you’ve said it may well be other issues that need discussion and work.