Other woman

[Blackbirdblue30]

If you were newly seeing someone (same sex relationship), but the new person lived with their ex, and consequently you weren't allowed in the house because the ex isn't happy about it, what would you think?
Apparently the ex is on the lease and won't be moving for the foreseeable. But they broke up months ago.
AIBU to think this is suspicious?

I've a friend who was in pretty much this situation, except her new girlfriend and her previous partner not only shared a flat but also a bed and a bath every night because they "didn't want to waste water"

It was beyond fucked up and obviously didn't last too long.

She doesn't want to disrupt her Home Life, when it's early days in the relationship.

If they wasn't living together, you wouldn't tell an Ex, or other Family Members, so early on.

She's stuck in the position she is in and just wants peace at Home.

It's your right to ask about timescales etc. Is she still sleeping in the bed they shared? Unless an Ex has done something terrible, rather than just grown apart, you still don't want to upset them if you can avoid it.

It's her home, you're not entitled access to it unless she says so.

Hope housing situation gets sorted out soon and that things work out.