To be grumpy

[Humbyhumby]

I was supposed to be meeting a friend this morn, we met last night and plan was to go for brunch today. No time was decided on. They messaged around half 10 asking where we should meet and I

I saw it at 12 and immediately messaged back. Have been ringing/FBing and texting for last two hours but nothing. We’re very close but I’m a bit grumpy.

Why are you grumpy? They have every right to be grumpy with you for not replying until 12 (technically going into the afternoon and no longer morning).

isn't brunch at 11 you only messaged one hour late I think she's being dramatic

I'd be a bit annoyed with you, to be honest. Especially when the plans were made only last night.

If you knew you had plans for brunch why on earth were you not checking your phone? Your friend had every right to be annoyed at you. Yabu

I woke up at half 11! We didn’t make specific plans. Only said message when you wake up. I did just that.

I don’t think they’re annoyed, I think they pehbaly haven’t checked their phone

Yeah I think you're being unreasonable.

Brunch is in the morning and it sounds like loose plans if you made no real suggestion of time. I'd expect most of my friends to be up before 11:30 and if it got to 12 and I haven't heard back yet; I'd probably just think the brunch wasn't happening and do something else - which is quite possibly why they haven't replied.

Being grumpy about it is quite childish. If it was really important, why didn't you set an alarm for 10 and massage then? You must have known that by 12; brunch wasn't happening? You got up too late. If anything; the other person has more reason to be annoyed; but I bet they aren't. They're just getting on with their Sunday.

Have you eaten yet? That might help the grumpiness!