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Is "having my tea" a northern thing?

422 replies

Queenoftheblitz · 29/04/2018 13:14

I'm a working class southerner. The only tea I have is in a cup with milk and sugar.
On mn a lot of posts talk about their evening meal as"tea", "what shall i make for tea" etc.
Do any southeners call it tea?

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DwangelaForever · 29/04/2018 15:22

Also I'm from Northern Ireland lol sorry for drip feeding!

Droopyrose · 29/04/2018 15:24

Breakfast, dinner, supper growing up NE Scotland. We would now say breakfast, lunch, supper with an occasional slip back to dinner instead of lunch. Probably because kids go packed lunch, not packed dinner, but if they had school lunches we'd call that school dinners. 80% of my colleagues say tea though, so I'm the minority.

whatstheplanphil · 29/04/2018 15:24

Lunch and tea here - Somerset

Aragog · 29/04/2018 15:25

Growing up it was always breakfast - lunch - tea.

Now though, although we only live about 45 minutes away, dd always says lunch - dinner. So we have tended to move that way too.

Supper was a late night small meal after tea/dinner, before bedtime.

FrancesHaHa · 29/04/2018 15:25

Breakfast, lunch and tea here - Southerner with working class parents from London.

Supper sounds much too posh and makes me think of David Cameron eating posh food and wine in a massive kitchen for some reason

Scotsmum2017 · 29/04/2018 15:25

Breakfast, lunch & dinner. Central Scotland, yes we are still part of the UK, the country doesn’t stop at the North of England!

catinapoolofsunshine · 29/04/2018 15:25

I'd never call lunch dinner either, but then we never eat our main meal at midday.

School cooked dinners assume no cooked meal in the evening surely? Or do people who use them cook / eat out twice a day?

JacintaJones · 29/04/2018 15:28

You hate people who call lunch, dinner and dinner, tea?

I hope for your sake that you're being intentionally hyperbolic Hmm

I'm WC northern and use them all interchangeably as do most people ime.

lynmilne65 · 29/04/2018 15:29

Supper is between tea and bed

Follyfoot · 29/04/2018 15:29

Supper caused me all sorts of confusion. That's hot chocolate and a biscuit at bedtime where i'm from so it was very puzzling to be invited to supper when we moved.

The word makes me think of 'Tim nice but dim' or Jacob Rees-Mogg (yuck).

EnglishRose13 · 29/04/2018 15:30

Breakfast, lunch and tea. Never dinner.

SW here.

Snog · 29/04/2018 15:30

It's a working class term, supper is the middle class version.

BackforGood · 29/04/2018 15:31

Breakfast, dinner, tea here (Midlands)

Just wondering, the people who call midday meal lunch (I don't mean those sensible folk who can interchange, I mean the ones who are horrified at the use of the word dinner for a midday meal), what happens at school, on the school timetable at dinner time, or what are dinner ladies called ?

catinapoolofsunshine · 29/04/2018 15:32

Backforgood I'm not in the UK anymore but I thought they were called lunchtime supervisors or midday supervisors now.

JacquesHammer · 29/04/2018 15:33

I’m not horrified by the use of dinner to mean lunch.

But at DD’s school they have “lunch”. It’s a very small school so rather than “go see a dinner lady” they’re far more likely to call them by name so a collective noun isn’t as necessary but I guess it’s “lunchtime” staff

Paddingtonthebear · 29/04/2018 15:35

South coast here. Breakfast, lunch and dinner.

My friend is Welsh and says breakfast, dinner and tea. When I lived in midlands it was breakfast, dinner, tea and definitely anywhere in north is the same.

Paddingtonthebear · 29/04/2018 15:36

And DD has “school dinners” but it’s called lunch at school

Ginger1982 · 29/04/2018 15:36

I'm from Scotland and say lunch and tea.

CuriousaboutSamphire · 29/04/2018 15:36

If you look at job sites they are often advertised as catering assistants etc... and the job category is usually "School Dinners" Smile

Majamandy · 29/04/2018 15:37

Hertfordshire, so S/SE, and we always say 'tea' for evening meal.

Majamandy · 29/04/2018 15:37

And we're defo middle class

IamnotaStepfordHousewife · 29/04/2018 15:39

Lunch and tea or dinner. But I've lived in both the North and South.

purlandvick · 29/04/2018 15:40

The Royle family , Barbara always asked about what they had for tea . Most northerners call evening meals tea .

Queenoftheblitz · 29/04/2018 15:40

Never heard of a traffic light -they sound gorgeous.

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bluerunningshoes · 29/04/2018 15:41

we have lunch - tea (bigger than snack, smaller than full meal) and dinner