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Celebrating leaving abusive relationship

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TheScandinavian · 25/04/2018 21:14

Just that really. Has anyone celebrated leaving? I'm mean once you moved and settled in your new home, did you do anything to celebrate? I really want to celebrate and do something to mark the beginning of my new life and end to the old?

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Idontdowindows · 25/04/2018 21:16

I will celebrate with you virtually and I think having a real world celebration is a really good idea!
Cake Wine

Grumpyoldblonde · 25/04/2018 21:22

I had a haircut, bought a few very non 'me' items of clothing and invited some friends over to drink champagne.
It was a sunny Saturday and the relief of it all being over was fabulous and knowing he wouldn't come home drunk and wreck my evening yet again.

I breathed again and haven't stopped since

mynameismrbloom · 25/04/2018 21:24

Wonderful idea! Wine Cheers!

Flockoftreegulls · 25/04/2018 21:28

You should definitely celebrate and enjoy yourself. Good luck for a happy future op CakeWineFlowersGin

Coralcolouredchrome · 25/04/2018 21:44

You sound really happy. You lucky, lucky thing. I am raising a glass to you, and all the happiness the future holds.Wine

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MyGastIsFlabbered · 25/04/2018 22:01

I'm having a 'thank fuck it's over' party in July

TheScandinavian · 26/04/2018 09:37

MyGast oh really? Tell me more GrinI was thinking of doing something similar, just don't know whether I just invite friends over or just me and the dcSmile

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MyGastIsFlabbered · 26/04/2018 13:54

In the summer I'm inviting all my friends over for a barbecue, I've had 3 years of hell since leaving and it's finally all over (court case) me and the boys are settled in our forever home now... damn right I'm celebrating!

TheScandinavian · 26/04/2018 16:23

Oh MyGast I'm jealous Grin I wish you all the best. It feels good, doesn't it?

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MyGastIsFlabbered · 26/04/2018 21:04

Thanks. It's been horrendous but finally over now.

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