When is enough, enough?

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ThereIsAlwaysDrama · 25/04/2018 10:40

MIL to be has form for interfering in our lives. She gets angry at things that aren't any of her business and makes DP feel like shit. I've told him time and time again he needs to tell her to stop interfering and to mind her business. He's done this about 3 times now and had big arguments.

So when is enough, enough? She will not stop interfering or mind her own business.

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Aprilmightbemynewname · 25/04/2018 10:43

Keep any info you give her to the minimum.

frasier · 25/04/2018 10:45

The ILs are cut off for various reasons, one being interfering. It’s your DH’s decision, though you could say you didn’t want to see or hear about her.

That’s what I did (and within two weeks, without me to sound off to, DH cut them off also).

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ThereIsAlwaysDrama · 25/04/2018 10:45

She finds it out from others and then we're in trouble for not letting her know 'keeping secrets'

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Aprilmightbemynewname · 25/04/2018 10:46

I would delete /block her number and let dh deal with her. Block her on social media also.

BlankTimes · 25/04/2018 10:47

Don't give her the opportunity to stick her beak in.

Stop telling her your plans.

BlankTimes · 25/04/2018 10:47

She finds it out from others

Stop telling them then.

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ThereIsAlwaysDrama · 25/04/2018 11:07

It's hard when all the family live in the same town. We can't go to visit anyone without MIL saying how disgusting it is that we didn't go and see her too.

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Aprilmightbemynewname · 25/04/2018 11:28

Well mil if are so horrible we better stay away. . Job done.

FinallyHere · 25/04/2018 11:30

Im very sorry you have a MiL who is 'disgusted' that you visit family.

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