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To ask the nursery to ensure DS drinks?

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jamoncrumpets · 20/04/2018 10:56

DS is 3 and has ASD and speech delay. He is perfectly capable of making his needs known at home, but is still settling into his new nursery and hasn't spoken that much, yet!

On Weds it was warm and I noticed he was quite floppy and hot when I collected him. He asked for a drink the second we got into the car and polished off a whole beaker of water.

Yesterday it was hot and I asked his key worker to keep an eye on his fluid intake. She replied, quite defensively, that water was freely available. Nevertheless he was very floppy and subdued when I collected him, when we got home he sat very quietly on the sofa and I noticed he felt almost feverish to touch, I made sure he had plenty of water. In the night he was even hotter, so I gave him more water and a dose of ibuprofen, which did the trick.

Today he's fine but he's had five cups of water already since waking up. So I'm almost certain he had mild heatstroke. I can't see him helping himself to water from the jug at nursery, it's not something he's ever done before. And he wouldn't think to ask for water if he was busy and dashing around.

AIBU to ask again for them to ensure he has a drink on hot days? I'm going to take him to the supermarket and let him choose a water bottle today, so I was thinking I could send that in with him.

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memememe · 20/04/2018 11:06

not at all unreasonable to ask them. my son is asd and even at 10 has to be told to take his jumper off in this weather and drink water as he simply doesnt feel the heat (or the cold) id be asking them to offer him a drink (and by offer i mean Put in his had not just ask him) every 30 mins .

LooksBetterWithAFilter · 20/04/2018 11:09

Not at all unreasonable I have had to mention it in primary school about ds1 who is a few sips person and he was a nightmare when he can out of school until he had a big drink and they were happy to keep an eye on it and make sure he had a drink regularly. He is very quiet and was often too shy to ask or to go and get his bottle from the shelf so would do without. At nursery I’d kind of expect them to make sure they have a drink I’m sure he’s not the only one that doesn’t remember.

Fwend · 20/04/2018 11:15

YANBU.

I'm a year 6 teacher and I've been reminding my children to drink all week. It's in no-one's best interests for children to become dehydrated!

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